(I originally published this blog post in 2017 - so long before covid was a thing and travel was a little more doable) I said to my husband “if I were brave I would visit South Africa with the baby”. “why not be brave?” he said And so I took a trip to visit a dear friend in South Africa when my second baby was just three months old. I left husband at home with the toddler (because taking a toddler on a 18 hour long haul trip is not brave; its foolhardy in the extreme) and bab